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Christ Church Covington
The Rev’d Pamela P. Snare
9 Pentecost
Deuteronomy 8:1-10
Ps.34:1-8
Ephesians 4:25-5:2
John 6:37-51
August 10, 2003


“Putting away falsehood, let all of us speak the truth to our neighbors, for we are members of one another. Be angry but do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, and do not make room for the devil. . .Let no evil talk come out of your mouths, but only what is useful for building up, as there is need, so that your words may give grace to those who hear. Put away from you all bitterness and wrath and anger and wrangling and slander, together with all malice, and be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ has forgiven you. Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children, and live in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.”

In view of the events which took place at the 74th General Convention of the Episcopal Church this past week, and the media coverage which they have received, I consider these words from St. Paul’s epistle to the Church at Ephesus to have been given to us providentially on this Sunday following the General Convention.

Out of ten days of proceedings and decision making, all of which involve our common life and mission as the Body of Christ, the two decisions which have captured the focus and attention of the media are 1) the consent to the election of the Rev’d Canon Gene Robinson as bishop of the diocese of New Hampshire – a man who is living in a non-celibate homosexual relationship, and 2) the adoption of a resolution which states, “that we recognize that local faith communities are operating within bounds of our common life as they explore and experience liturgies celebrating and blessing same-sex unions.”

These decisions have brought into the open, indeed into the public forum, what was already true in the Episcopal Church. Namely, that we in the Episcopal Church are not all of one mind regarding these issues; that there has been and continues to be disagreement on these issues among our leaders and members, in the national church, in our diocese, and in our parish. This disagreement about homosexuality is not particular to the Episcopal Church. Regardless of official teaching, Christian churches of almost every stripe have members who hold a variety of opinions on the issue.

On Friday, our Bishop, Charles Jenkins, sent a pastoral statement to all of our clergy to be used as we thought best. Copies of his pastoral statement may be found in the narthex of the church, and I urge all of you to take a copy home and read it, if you have not picked up a copy already. It is an honest, faithful, and compassionate statement, in which he shares his own struggle and decisions on this issue. I commend it to you highly, and I will tell you that I believe we are fortunate to have him as our episcopal leader. Although he makes it clear that he believes the Church’s traditional teaching on marriage to be the standard revealed to us in Scripture, he openly acknowledges that we are not all of one mind in this diocese and that he believes, “This is an occasion for us to model and practice the unity for which Jesus prayed and to demonstrate the level of Christian maturity that is a value of and characteristic of the Diocese of Louisiana.” He is not reactionary. He is modeling for us, and challenging us to model, the standard of humility, patience, forbearance, and compassion that is shown to us in the life, person, and ministry of Jesus Christ. He is challenging us to live with and through our disagreements as mature Christians, and to keep firmly before us, rooted in our hearts and minds and actions, the example of Christ as our standard in our relationships with one another, our words and our actions toward each other, and most especially toward those with whom we disagree.

What does it mean to model Christian maturity? Our second reading today is an apt summary of what it means to be a mature Christian, to seek to follow the mind and example of Christ. “Putting away all falsehood, let all of us speak the truth to our neighbors, for we are members of one another.” It is only fair and responsible of me to speak the truth to you as God has led me. With our Bishop and our rector, I affirm the Church’s traditional teaching on marriage as the standard revealed to us in Scripture. I have thought and rethought and prayed over this issue since I was first ordained in 1983, and was appointed to the Commission on Ministry in the Diocese of North Carolina. It came before us then and has continued to be part of our life together as the Body of Christ.

“Put away from you all bitterness and wrath and anger and wrangling and slander, together with all malice, and be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ has forgiven you.” At the same time that I affirm the Church’s traditional teaching, I must also tell you that I frankly acknowledge, not just with my lips, but in my heart, every time I pray the general confession, and receive the Eucharist, that I am a sinner in need of God’s mercy and forgiveness and compassion. When we get to those phrases, “we confess that we have sinned against you, in thought, word, and deed, by what we have done and by what we have left undone,” I rehearse in my mind and heart those things of which I am aware that I have thought and said and done, or left undone, which have grieved the mind of Christ, which have fallen short of his example. No week, indeed no day, passes that I have not grieved Christ. That knowledge helps to discipline me from condemning others or passing judgment on the offenses of others. As the psalmist writes, “Who can tell how often he offends? Cleanse me from my secret faults. Above all, keep your servant from presumptuous sins; let them not get dominion over me” (Ps.19:12-13a).

Christians who are homosexual are as much in need of the sacraments, the ministry of the Church, and the mercy, forgiveness and compassion of God as I am. I cannot slander or be malicious toward them without harming my own relationship with God and without endangering my own salvation. I cannot slander or be malicious toward anyone without failing to live according to the standard of Christ. Christians who are homosexuals are given gifts for ministry on behalf of Christ. As Bishop Jenkins states, “by all accounts. . .the Rev. Canon V. Gene Robinson is a capable and gifted priest.” This is why Church teaching has distinguished between being homosexual and homosexual behavior. Church teaching does not exclude homosexuals from being members of the Body of Christ, nor from exercising their gifts in ministry for Christ. For centuries, the Church has ordained homosexual persons while requiring them to be celibate. What the Church has not condoned is homosexual behavior.

This morning, at 9:00, we are celebrating the baptism of Callie Shay Cooper. When we reaffirm the baptismal covenant, we promise that we “will seek and serve Christ in all persons, loving our neighbors as ourselves,” and that we “will strive for justice and peace among all people, and respect the dignity of every human being.” There are no exception clauses. Our promise implies that we believe Christ is present in all persons – those with whom we agree and those with whom we disagree. It implies that we will show respect for every person’s dignity because all of us have been created in God’s image - those with whom we agree and those with whom we disagree. To act otherwise is to fail to live according to the mind and example of Christ.

Our bishop is challenging us to exercise these virtues of mature Christians: humility, patience, forgiveness, kindness, and forbearance as we live together as a community of faith in our parishes and in our diocese. He is encouraging us not to indulge in bitterness, wrath, wrangling, slander, and malice. He is asking us to unite around that which we do have in common – the mission of the Church – to reach out to those who have no church home, to minister to those in need in our communities and our diocese, to focus our efforts and our energies on taking the gospel of Christ to those who have lost hope, who have lost faith, and who have lost love

What does the future hold? None of us can tell, none of us ever can tell. But I can say, with our bishop, that even though “I do not know what the future holds, I know who holds the future.” God does not abandon us. God has not abandoned us. God is faithful even when we are not.

My faith in God and commitment to God has not changed. My commitment to the Episcopal Church has not changed. There is no perfect church in this world and in this time. There is no church where there is not disagreement over one or another doctrine and/or practice. The fullness of the Kingdom of God is not to be found in this world. It is reserved for the next. In the meantime, I must try to be as faithful as God grants me the grace to be, living in an imperfect world, in an imperfect Church, with imperfect people, and with an imperfect self. Nevertheless, I will press on to the upward call of God in Jesus Christ, doing my best, through God’s grace and with his help, to lay aside all bitterness, wrath, wrangling, slander and malice, and to be clothed with compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, patience, and love toward ALL. This is the only thing I know to do because God has called me to do this, to serve in this time and in this place, regardless of the difficulty or the cost. So be it. Amen.

Sermon by the Reverend Pamela P. Snare

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